The Frizzy Place
I’m used to it
The saddest thing you can hear someone say. (via suckingonlarry)



Saving this for reference later


How I deal with problems 

To Emily and Kimmi, remember this!



A man in the grocery store line today approached me and said, “Sir, when I first saw you I was extremely attracted to you, but then I noticed that you are a boy. How… I mean, why do you dress so provocatively?”

I responded, “Well, in today’s world the majority of the straight male race view women as objects, or something that belongs to them. I dress provocatively because it attracts the attention of men in a sexual and OBJECTIVE way. However, when realized that I am actually male, they often become confused, disgusted, upset or all of the above. By inflicting this minor emotional damaged upon the ego of a man raised by twisted societal gender norms, maybe, just maybe the individual will think twice before viewing another woman with an objective attitude and sense of belonging. No woman, belongs to ANYONE. Male or female, the equality of human beings needs to be a priority. It is something worth dressing up for.”

I AM NOT KIDDING. The woman behind me, the female cashier, the old lady bagging groceries and the woman in front of me who was talking on the phone STOPPED, …. and proceeded to gasp and clap. The man shook my hand, told me to have a blessed day and then said, “excuse me ladies, I need to visit my daughter.”

…. I was shaking by the time I walked out of the store.

- Elliott Alexzander

Hopefully OP will see this.

My (straight male) fiance says: “This man is beautiful and a hero. Having seen his pictures and reading the article underneath, I feel enlightened and slightly more intelligent. If I ever had the opportunity to meet him, I would probably give him a hug.”

(P.S. My fiance is thankfully one of those that has defied societal norms and fights to keep from falling into the “pretty lady=sex object” mentality)


 Win a FREE BLANKET! Your choice of any one in my shop!

Check it out :)


1. Must REBLOG this.

2. Must Follow this Tumblr (to avoid issues that came up in the past). I only post the odd thing here and there. Its mostly giveaways and artwork :)

3. Raffle ends APRIL 12th. I will announce the winner the next day.

4. I will send the winner a Note. They must reply within 48 hours. It’s best if the winner contacts me on Deviantart just in case:

Upon the winner choosing what they would like, I will ship it to them, so a mailing address must be provided where you can receive packages.

 I have other things available as well, here’s one more link to my shop ( I like to art whore ! You wouldn’t look down on a starving artist would you ;_;? )

 Good luck! Thanks to everyone who follows me here or on Deviantart!


I decided to have a giveaway. 

So, what is in this give away, you ask?

♫ A blue and yellow stuffed chick
♫ A set of chick salt and paper shakers
♫ Bunny erasers
♫ Skittles, chocolate eggs, peeps, eggies
♫ Butterfly stickers and attachments
♫ Floral pencils, fruit notepads, cute band-aids 

CAT NOT INCLUDED… she saw a box and went for it….  Can’t control the cats when it comes to boxes.



♥ Fav this entry
♥ Reblog this entry (got to spread the word somewhere-  you can reblog this as many times as you want, but it will still be only one entry)
♥ If you reblog and already follow me, you get THREE entries!
♥ If you decide to follow me, you get one additional entry if your reblog this.
♥ fav my DA journal
♥ promote my DA journal on DA and get an extra entry!


♪  Draw or write about a Chocobo ♪
— Sketch - 2 additional entries
— Coloured Sketch - 3 additional entries
— Detailed Drawing (no background) - 5 additional entries
— Detailed Drawing  (with background) - 10 additional entries
— Drabble with Chobobo (~500 words) - 2 additional entries
— Story with Chocobo ( ~1000 words or more) - 10 additional entries

If you do a bonus entry, attack a link to this and re-blog it so that I can find it and put the additional information 


This give-away will be over April 30, 2014!  
A winner will be picked with a random number generator.

I will ship anywhere in the world!  You must be able to give me your address.  If you want to give it to someone else, if you have their address, I will ship directly to them.

I will contact the winner right after and you have a week to respond.  If you don’t respond, I will draw another winner from the list.


I really would like to see a lot of bonus entries because I really like chocobo’s…. like you didn’t know that.

— Any questions, let me know —



A friend of mine works at a food stand in town. Please note they sell sausages, hot dogs, philly cheese steaks, corn dogs, and other assortments of fried food as well as beverages. My friend is a never-ending wealth of stories filled with bad-attitude patrons, wanna-be con artists, and just plain…


One of the hardest things about working retail is having to keep a smile on your face when the person you are helping is making it soooo difficult.

First and foremost, I really wish some people would realize that when you ask a question, please wait and hear the full answer before speaking again….


If your child is screaming bloody murder and/or pitching a fit while you are outside, please for the love of all that is good in this world, do not bring them inside a shop until they have calmed down.

1) The walls will make the sound even louder and will likely disrupt activity within the store.

On a more light-hearted note…


A potter just gave me this little gem to share.

Often as he is working at his shop, covered head to toe in clay as he makes his merchandise on the wheel, people will watch him for a long moment then ask, “Do you make this stuff by hand?”

….brilliant, aren’t they?